Selfies!

People are doing it. They do it everywhere from the bedroom to the beach to the boardroom to (controversially) the funeral. True confession – I did it at the famed Clinton School located right next to Clinton’s Presidential Library in Little Rock waiting on a speaker. Why not, it’s universal. If you haven’t done it yet, you are likely to at least try it at some time in the future.

Selfie. ©D.L. Ewbank

Selfie. ©D.L. Ewbank

I’m talking about the selfie, a picture of you taken by you.

The selfie isn’t new. According to Lindsey Holmes in Why You Just Can’t Help But Selfie, selfies have been around since the earliest days of photography using mirrors and automatic timers. With today’s technology adding to the ease of selfies, they have increased in popularity especially among the young. While naysayers complain it’s a form of narcissism, many of us see it more as a way to connect with others by giving fun, personal glimpses into our lives.

Selfies run the gamut from as dramatically serious as a celebrity head shot to off-the-cuff, clownishly humorous. As the entire instantaneous process of image capture and delivery via social media can be done in seconds with a smart phone, it is a digital slap in the face to those slow photographic film processes of the past.

“Where am I?” I asked when we picked up the processed photographs. I was five, too early according to Erikson’s psychosocial stages to be developing adolescent identity framed by “Who am I?” But as an only child I featured prominently in the images that narrated our family life. For that reason I thought I would be the focus of the photographs I had taken with my new Brownie box camera. The selfie can help answer the “Where am I?” question and others from “Who am I?” to “Who am I at this very moment in time where I am right now?” Selfies, harkening back to commissioned self-portrait in Ancient Egypt, can help answer self-exploration questions according to media psychologist Pamela Rutledge in #Selfies: Narcissism or Self-Exploration? A major value of selfies to life narrators, Rutledge says, is that (like other photographs) they help us later by stirring up the actual “emotions, context, and experience.”

Want control of how you are viewed by others? Selfies are also a great way for folks from celebrities to commoners to take back our brands.

Wanna take better selfies? The front-facing camera has helped a lot by allowing for advance viewing and helping eliminate “selfie arm.” And some might know you can use the volume buttons to snap a pic. But an even handier tip is to use your iPhone’s headphones. Plug in your headphones, set up your iPhone, open the camera app, aim for a terrific shot, then press the + button on the headphones.

What is the possible future for the selfie? The savvy technology/social media embracing presidential candidate of 2014 (following in the steps of Barack Obama in 2008) might encourage its use among young campaigners to show insights into the campaign as well as support among the young and trendy. Maybe this thought springs from my own experience. I was bored waiting at the Clinton School in Little Rock to hear Fran Dresher tell about her Cancer Schmancer Movement in September 2012. For my own entertainment, I started snapping selfies. I posted one on Facebook with the caption, “How to kill time waiting for a speaker: take funny shots of yourself with your iPhone:-)” Where can I see yours?

What’s your bag?

For many women, the handbag is a utilitarian necessity, a place to carry wallets, keys, phones and makeup. Other women elevate the handbag to an art piece using them to make a fashion statement, even collecting particular designer brand pieces as they would the work of a certain artist. I had way too much affection for designer bags until an accident and knee surgery that landed me on crutches forced me to simplify. I chose a small, light, black leather shoulder bag that carried the essentials. But it wasn’t until 2010 when I became a full time story dame that I streamlined to mainly one bag.

See the bag. Touch the bag. Buy the bag.

See the bag. Touch the bag. Buy the bag.

For the StoryDame, the handbag is a life story enabler. It needs to be capable of carrying whatever you need to be able to capture your story at any given moment. For me, that could include my wallet, smart phone and whatever it takes to freshen my appearance. Some days it might include a laptop, papers, and maybe a shirt change should the occasion demand these. What I look for is a bag efficient enough to be used as a briefcase, yet attractive enough to simply be a purse. Because of the amazing life of my last Coach bag, which may have set a standard that few can match, my goal is that it should be sturdy enough to last about three years.

Spring 2013 my three-year clock is about to run out on the “fab bag” I bought in 2010 when an email from Dillard’s arrives in my email inbox announcing that their brand new Coach bags are 25% off. “Start of the season” bags at a significant savings? It’s worth a look. Almost immediately I hop in my car and off I drive to Park Plaza Mall. As I intently scan the available options in the Coach section my eyes fall on a medium leather tote. I’ve never believed in love at first sight until now.

The bag beckons silently from where it hangs. I moved slowly toward it. My fingers run over its flawless, slightly textured leather surface which will hide a multitude of scaring sins. Inside it is roomy with a zipped compartment on one side and two pockets for things like cell phones and lip gloss on the other. It is equipped with a zipper closure to prevent contents from falling out.

I’m about to go with my standard black when I spot a “pop of color.” I chose the red-orange bag and swipe my card for what might seem a pricey estravagance to some. Yet divided by three, the bag is a low cost bargain!

Having one bag cuts down on time and money spent on decision, dressing and additional bags. Since my wardrobe is mainly composed of solids with a lot of neutrals, this bag fits with my wardrobe as well as my lifestyle.

Was it a good choice? Just about everywhere I go – a shared meal with friends and family, a local department store, or the food aisles at Wal-Mart – that bag gets favorable comments from total strangers.

 

The Mophie Juice Pack Helium for iPhone 5

As I prepare for the trip to Digital Hollywood, the new IOS 7 update for iPhone is available. I don’t want to mess with my phone until I return home. Don’t fix what isn’t broken, right? But buzz about issues associated with the update and battery life remind me of a reoccurring problem. I need my iPhone 5 from dawn to dusk and possibly into the night while I’m in sunny, southern California. How can I avoid looking like a battery failing bumpkin in front of Hollywood’s finest?

I LOVE the Mophie Juice Pack Helium!

I LOVE the Mophie Juice Pack Helium!

“Do you have something that is able to extend battery life without plugging into electrical?” I ask the Apple rep. “Sure do,” he answers. He walks me to the wall where multiple color choices of the Mophie Juice Pack Helium for iPhone 5, essentially a case that contains a battery, hang. The allure of focusing on conference sessions instead of wall outlets is so appealing I hardly notice the price of $79.95 plus tax.

The most difficult decision of the purchase is color. The Apple rep likes blue, but there’s so much blue in my life my phone could disappear like a hunter wearing camouflage in the Arkansas deer woods during hunting season.

I choose the hot pink case. After he slides my credit card through his hand-held device, he extracts the cover, the charging cord and a headphone extension from the packaging. He pops my iPhone into the case, then snaps on the lower portion. The lower portion is fit with a 1500 mAh Battery at 3.7 V nominal battery for over 5 watt-hours of capacity, a place to insert the charge plug, and a pace to plug in the headset extender. Four LED lights on the back indicate the case’s battery charge level.

When do you turn on the helium? The manufacturer suggests turning it on with the button right of the LED lights when the iPhone 5 battery hits 20%. Turn the charge off when the iPhone battery reads about 80%.

While I didn’t conduct an official battery life test, I can attest that my iPhone talked me all the way from Hollywood to Marina del Rey (Siri should be called S.I.S.S. because Siri Is Soooo Smart!) all four days of the conference. After nightly charging, it lasted through each day as I checked social connections and email, took notes, and snapped pics. It talked me back home to Hollywood.

I realized what a wise choice I made when I saw one conference attendee moving in the middle of a session to be near an electrical outlet. Mophie Juice Pack Helium for iPhone 5 is worth every penny.

Margot Leitman

I’m inspired by Margot Leitman.

I was immersed in intensive improv classes at the Upright Citizens Brigade, yet secretly hoping for a storytelling class, when I spotted Storytelling and Solo Work 101 in spring 2011. The class was taught by comedian Margot Leitman whose credits include Moth Grandslam Champion, regular appearances on “Late Night With Conan O’Brien,” and at the UCB a long running solo show and two storytelling shows. I enrolled immediately.

Margot Leitman by Anya Garrett

Margot Leitman by Anya Garrett